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Some of these have to do with UX work but most are random thoughts and stories.
Sharing experiences, creating connections
I loved that this post helped her and others that reached out to me.
The "Magic Mushrooms" story
A about a time in high school where I wanted to fit in and got more than i bargained for.
Making friends with bees!
As long as I've known her, my sister Cheryl has been terrified of bees. This summer I pushed her to face her bee fear...
Facing imposter syndrome head on (and hoping to not puke)
I told myself "yep you're gonna do it, even if you puke on stage, make an ass of yourself, or otherwise mess this up you have to do this and you ARE going to be better for it."
Meeting Bryan Cranston
Im not one that usually tries to get photos with celebs but in this case I just knew I had to.
Do I have 9 lives?
Here is a list of all the times I have almost killed myself (accidentally) or came close to death. Some comical some not. But the real question is, how many lives do I have left?
The Seinfeld method
Whether or not you like Jerry Seinfeld's comedy, the Seinfeld method is something I think we can all get behind. This method has helped me keep my eye on my goals and build healthy habits.
The WOPR might be my favorite "evil computer"
I love seeing fictional computers, especially in old movies, dish out life lessons and try predict what the future of computing might be.
4 tips to create a successful long distance relationship
Long distance can be challenging, especially at first. So here are our top tips for not only making long distance work but creating an even stronger relationship despite the distance.
Went out to find two forks and discovered treasure!
I live in a tiny apartment so having lots of dishes and flatware isn't practical. Today I went out to replace 2 forks that I lost and discover treasures from the Waldorf Astoria.
Feared childhood movies!
I think we all have that one movie that wasn't supposed to be scary but somehow just was. Here is my list.
Moving from my hometown and embracing fear
Leaving your hometown can be a daunting experience, I know it certainly was for me. You have your own self doubt then all the people around you getting you down on how you’re gonna “fail” - I let this negativity hold me back for many years and didn’t make the move.
I had so much regret that I didn’t - until finally one day I built up the courage to take the leap.
Kill Your Voicemail
I know, its a hard one, but someone needs to say it. Voicemail is SO old school! It is already annoying enough that you have to go in and check your voice mail but then most of the time the messages are SO not necessary! Just f***ing text that to me for Christ sake!
Ill show you what I did to put an end to people leaving me voicemails. Let me know your thoughts.
I changed my name
I went to the courthouse, sat in front of a judge and changed my last name.
Everyone's first question is "Why?" - understandably.
My answer is "I wanted to."
The Marshmallow Challenge: Rethinking Our Approach to Product Development
What I am proposing in this article is that we come to grips that the world we live in now is different than it was five to ten years ago due to continuous technological advancements. Our modern world is complex and ever-evolving. Our approach to innovation must be flexible as well in order to stay relevant, take advantage, and reap the benefit of these changes.
Creatively saying "NO"
As product managers, we want the best for your product. It’s important to keep things on track, on time, and keeping your product features relevant. In order to achieve these ideals, difficult conversations about the product are often needed to be had. And what can make these conversations difficult are that they include the use of, “no.”
LESSONS LEARNED - AND I F***ing love accordions
A few experiences that has shaped my thinking over the last few months. Life *could be* short, dont hold back!
Also some sweet accordion music and then a movie in Bryant Park!
Beers featured, Cack-A-Lacky by Fullsteam, Goose Island IPA, and good ol' Bud Light Water-mellon-rita
Crop and Chop: A designer and wanna be chef
I know for me, in my work, I have a hard time exercising patience sometimes. I think what I gained most of of cooking classes, aside from better knife skills, is to exercise better patience when it comes to people that work under you. Encouragement is a powerful tool and direct critique can encourage growth and light a fire to do better.